It Takes a Lifetime to Learn How to Live is an intimate, multigenerational Italian American memoir immersed in the legacies of secrets, silence, and sacrifice of Southern Italy.
In 1915, Carmela leaves the remote village of Rotondella. Her daughter, Laura, grows up determined to sever the past in an effort to be fully American. But decades later, when her life collapses, Laura’s daughter-the memoir’s narrator-sets off alone to Italy in search of truth and belonging.
Her journey leads her back to her ancestral village, where she finds the open arms of family-and also uncovers the lingering shadows of the malocchio, omert?, rigid Catholicism, and a past of abject poverty, arranged marriage, patriarchal control, the Mafia, and a suspicion of sexual abuse.
She begins to understand how these forces shaped not only her grandmother’s life, but also her mother’s-and her own. By honoring the courage of the women who came before her, to risk and endure, she finds the grace to forgive, to heal, to make peace with her mother, and ultimately, to come home to herself.
Author: Libby Cataldi
Binding Type: Paperback
Publisher: Bordighera Press
Published: 11/04/2025
Series: VIA Folios #184
Pages: 224
Weight: 0.67lbs
Size: 9.00h x 6.00w x 0.51d
ISBN: 9781599542393
Language: English
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